Why is it that only married men want to have a relationship with me? As for single guys, they seem not to be ready to have a serious relationship. I'm 32, hardworking, beautiful, kind and I know that I am generally a good person. It scares me because my conscience would not allow me to date or have a relationship with a married person. Kindly advise me.
It is important to remind yourself about what influences people to get into relationships. First, if we are driven by need, and our needs supersede our ability to reason through with care and set a clear agenda for ourselves, then we can end up getting into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
You cannot allow the pressure of telling yourself that you are getting old to drive you into an unsuitable relationship.
In this question lies your frustration. The fact is that men sometimes have no idea that women are more in tune with their emotions than they are, and when men don’t pay attention to these emotions, it can be frustrating. That is why, as you aim to get into a relationship with a bigger agenda in mind, understand that your desires and that of men you may find suitable may clash.
From what you’ve written, it is obvious that you have a healthy view of yourself, and this is commendable. However, you are concerned about your age, and worry that this is what could be denying you a serious relationship.
Failure to challenge and direct your emotions may lead to inner battles, compromise, or forcing things to work your way.
