Wifespeak: Your wife is cyclical, adjust accordingly
Look, Mother Nature and woman are one. The same way today is chilly, and tomorrow is sunny operates in the same pattern as a woman. They are both cyclical.
Once upon a time, hubby and I had weekly debriefing meetings over a drink. We were truly committed to putting in the work for our marriage. We discussed what was working or not in our relationship. On one occasion, he said that I seemed to have a ‘ka-demon’ that would occasionally and suddenly take over my mood and turn me from a sweet Samburu girl into a Jezebel, so much so that I would scare him. “That sounds like a bipolar situation,” I had said, to which he quickly replied, “No, no, it’s very brief and it does not even happen during your time of the month.” Right.
Gentlemen, there is an animal called Premenstrual syndrome (PMS), which four out of five women experience every month, in varying degrees. If you read that right, it means ninety-nine percent of us, your wife, daughter, sister included must experience it.
