Think of that receptionist or secretary who makes it seem as if it is their life’s purpose to ensure that you don’t get to see their boss.
What about that utterly unmotivated, bored and lethargic civil servant you found when you visited that government office?
Have you ever come across people who hold you hostage with their standoffish behaviour? I am talking about people who make you want to strangle them on the spot, but since you need their help to get somewhere or get things done, you hold your irritation in check and bite your tongue, real hard, lest you say something that will make them even more less inclined to help you.
To paint a clearer picture, think of that receptionist or secretary who makes it seem as if it is their life’s purpose to ensure that you don’t get to see their boss. Their default answer is always that the boss is not in. They will start by pointedly sizing you up from top to bottom and deeming you unworthy of the boss’s attention.
