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How come this relationship is not moving to the next level?

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What you need to know:

  • I would urge you to appreciate your relationship as it thrives.
  • If for you, moving is a progression to marriage, then unfortunately, you are failing to see the bigger picture, which is the fact that both of you are still having fun.
  • I recommend you do not attempt to mold your relationship into something you will regret.


I’ve been dating a nice guy for a while, and we’re having a lot of fun together, but somehow the relationship’s not progressing at all. I’d like it to move! What’s wrong?


 You might be taking the relationship seriously while he is having fun. In other words, you are the committed partner here while he is a joyrider. Communication is important. Don't assume your partner is on the same page as you. Sit down and discuss your relationship.
Chira Githinji