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My marriage is breaking because of my rude wife

Fighting couple

Don’t be harsh and judgmental towards the actions of others.

Photo credit: Pool

What you need to know:

  • I want you to pay greater attention to what could be the genesis of these quarrels and conflicts.
  • It is clear also that she is concerned with your relationships with other women be it casual or not.

My marriage isn’t working. We argue every day, sometimes because of no reason at all. My wife is very rude and she banned me from supporting any child who is not ours yet I have relatives to support. I also have one child outside marriage whom I support. She asks for time apart every time she finds me chatting to a woman and accuses me of cheating. What should I do? I am so confused. 

It is evident that some things are not going right in your relationship. Without focusing on the fact that there is never peace and that it is always conflict in the relationship, I want you to pay greater attention to what could be the genesis of these quarrels and conflicts. In fact, in any normal relationship, disagreement is a good sign that the two people need to acknowledge that they see things differently and that there is a need to harmonise their perspectives through honest dialogue. Conflicts and fights lefts of their own will only make things worse and lead to separation.