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My wife is cold and distant, and she wants me to get the sack

To mend your marriage, interrogate your actions, associations and how you treat her. PHOTO | FILE | NATION MEDIA GROUP

What you need to know:

  • You need to get to the root of the problem, otherwise your unhappiness will get deeper.

Hi Pastor Kitoto,

I am 42 years old and have been married for six years. My problem is that whenever I return home from work in the evening, my wife totally ignores me, something that can go on for days. My only joy is our child. If we are lucky and someone visits, she will laugh and talk as though our relationship is great. As soon as the visitor leaves, things go back to what they were. Once, she called my place of work and asked my boss to sack me. She is a disturbed housewife, who is not at peace with me or herself. I once asked her what she would gain if I lost my job, only for her to tell me that she would be “very happy”. What is happening here?