My wife does not enjoy sex, to the extent that she does not initiate it, she is too busy with church, friends and chamas. Since I am the one who always makes sexual advances, at times I feel guilty when seeking intimacy, I feel like I am inviting sin into our home. PHOTO | FILE
Marriage is an intimate union to be enjoyed by a couple. It is important for you and your wife to be of this view. Both of you need to look for ways to enjoy not only the pleasure, but the bonding that sexual intimacy brings.
However, remaining faithful and learning to cultivate the kind of intimacy that will be enjoyed by you is yours for the taking. Godly values will help give your marriage its character, particularly where such values are lived out and modelled by a couple.
Hi Kitoto,
I am 55 years old, and my wife and I have been married for almost 20 years. We are God-fearing and have three children. I believe that the gift of sex from God was for pleasure and maybe children if you are lucky to get them.
