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Help! I can’t stop thinking about cheating on my loving husband...

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What you need to know:

  • If you're secretly falling in love with someone else avoid him at all cost even if it means changing your daily routine. 
  • Resist that thought. Distract yourself by rekindling the love you have for your husband. 
  • If you have underlying or unresolved domestic problems, have an honest conversation with your partner and resolve them amicably.

This sounds bad, but I’m thinking of cheating on my husband. Why are thoughts like that going through my mind? What should I do about them?

According to the Good Book, thinking about cheating or committing adultery is a major sin. So, if you are a Christian, seek repentance first. Secondly, you need to search your soul and find out why you have the urge to cheat on your husband. Is it that you are just promiscuous? Is your chemistry dead? Thirdly, speak to him and be open on everything. It might be a burning issue, however, dealing with the elephant in the room could be the only thing that will save your marriage. Lastly seek professional advice from marriage experts and psychologists. If you start cheating, there's no going back and it will be very detrimental to your marriage.
Daniel Kariuki, Sociologist