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In Kenya, introverts are more likely to get short end of stick

Personality types

Introverts are like a slow website, they may load slowly but inside they have great content.

Photo credit: Pool

What you need to know:

  • Introverts are reserved and dreamy; parents too are a bit aggressive when it comes to introverts.
  • Introverted males experience a lot of toxic masculinity from peers while females are ridiculed as snobs by boys and men.

Look around you. Wherever you are — in a matatu, at work, at school, or at any social event — there is always the talkative guy probably trying to score a beautiful lady, the silent guy who seems distracted and distant, and the one who seems to be a bit of both.

The first is an extrovert, the second an introvert and the last an ambivert — the three major personality types. Growing up, I found it hard to embrace my introversion since it was seen as a flaw, something wrong. My teachers and peers kept telling me how “shy” and “slow” I was. Many children go through this and end up having identity issues.