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I love my possessive, abusive and insecure ex-boyfriend

Sad woman

A sad young woman sitting surrounded by flowers.

Photo credit: Pool | Nation Media Group

What you need to know:

  • Fear of retribution is a big challenge that has crippled many relationships.
  • Love is a choice we make to be caring, affirming, appreciative and supportive of each other.

Hi,

I'm a 22-year-old university student, almost in my final year. My boyfriend and I are in the same university, though he is older than me at 24.