When you were first married you talked all the time. But nowadays you’re just too tired. You work hard all day and get stressed, so once you get home, you just want to relax. And be quiet. So maybe you slip in without even saying hello to your spouse. That’s understandable, but it’s chipping away at your relationship.
You’re probably also not saying “I love you” as much as you should. You used to say it all the time, but now it takes second place to your WhatsApp messages and social media. They may feel important, but what you are really doing is neglecting your spouse. Soon they’re feeling lonely and unloved, and wondering what’s going wrong with their marriage.