A few weeks ago, I gave men a sneak preview of the wish list that every married woman carries in her handbag, a list that spells out how they would want their husbands to treat them.
Quite a number of men wrote back, and convinced me that it would only be fair if I also let the women in their lives know what they would like from them.
How could I refuse especially when they made my work easier and sent me their wish list? I have to confess though, that as I went through their detailed list, I found myself humming that tune from Mission Impossible to some of the entries.
Anyway, here is your chance to make your man the happiest in Kenya.Be a good cook: Go light on the makeup:
Be in the mood for sex, anytime, most of the time:
While at it, they say that we should not bring up doomes just when he is getting into the mood, or after the deed. They are also tired of the boundaries and sanctions you insist on having in the bedroom.
Go with the flow, they say. Wrote one man, Compliment and appreciate him:
It turns out that men also like to be told how good looking they are, and how besotted we are with them. Ladies, turn on the charm.
No supermarket please:
“Dragging your husband to the supermarket is like trying to make a camel get into an igloo.” Read another.Respect and submit to him:
They wish that you would be their loudest cheer leader, and praise their plans, instead of criticising them. Don’t mother him:
“We know you have a bank of 10,000 words a day, which you need to get out, but who says you should direct all of them at us?” quipped one man.
I found myself humming that tune again at this one, because our need to talk is too great to just switch off.
There you go, my fellow women, all you ever needed to please a man. Oh, before I forget, he wants you to know that he sees no difference between yellow and orange.
