Dilemma: I love my boyfriend, but something just feels off…

I’ve been with my boyfriend for quite a while, and I do love him and enjoy our dates. But somehow I feel something is amiss. He is not cheating and we are not fighting, but I sense there’s trouble ahead. Every time I try to visualise my future with him, I freeze. Why am I feeling like this?

You need to know each other better which can only be achieved by having more frequent interactions. Give it time as the experiences you go through together will help clear whatever uncertainties there may be in your mind.
W KAGOCHI KUIRA,
Counsellor, Nyeri