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Dilemma: What can I do to attain sexual satisfaction?

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I am a woman in my 50s and have been with my husband for decades. I used to have wonderful orgasms. Why did they stop and how can I get them back? Is stress the culprit? Is it my age? My husband and I continue to have sex regularly and I enjoy the intimacy, but I really miss vaginal orgasms and the release they brought. What do I do?


Your sexual fetish at 50 has a downward graphical representation, but that does not mean you can't orgasm or enjoy the encounter with your husband. All you need to do is to check your lifestyle. Anything stressful in your life, busy schedule or even the connection you have with your husband can have a direct impact on your current sex life. Any romantic interactions, such as late-night dates, should not be thrown out of the window just because you're 50. Try visiting a sex therapist together for guidance.
Juma Felix